Pisces: The Disappearing Man

Pisces man:

Pisces is the natural ruler of the 12th house and is ruled by the planet Neptune. Pisces energy is dreamy, mysterious, private, and secretive. Pisceans often have escapist tendencies and require alone time to recharge their buttons. Like Aquas, they live in their own world. Unlike Aquas, however, Pisces lives in a dream world. They can often be found daydreaming about their hopes and dreams for the future. Pisceans are incredibly compassionate and sensitive people who find the real world a hard and cold place. This is why they tend to escape into their private dream world quite often; Negative energy affects them a lot, so they need a break from life every once in a while to recharge their batteries. At the same time, their desire to escape from the everyday world can lead them into difficult situations.

Pisces is a mutable sign, indicating that they are changeable. Pisceans are chameleons and can adapt to new situations, people, and places very easily. This changing energy can cause difficulties in your personal relationships.

Pisces’ vision of the perfect relationship is often unrealistic and based on fantasy. He has a hard time finding a partner who lives up to his ideals. Real relationships take work; they involve compromise, conflict, and responsibility, which are things Pisces tend to dislike. For this reason, they tend to be attracted to unattainable (ie “taken”) partners and unrequited love situations. In these situations, Pisceans will not have to face the “realities” of relationships, and can continue to fantasize and idealize the unattainable person. Also, Pisceans are notoriously indecisive and tend to have a roving eye, which can make it even more difficult for them to choose a partner.

People involved with Pisces in a relationship often complain that their Pisces lovers tend to disappear for days, weeks, and even months. When a Pisces goes missing, she’s escaping from reality. Perhaps the relationship has become too “real” for him. Perhaps the two of you fell out and the negativity temporarily pushed you away. Some Pisces have multiple relationships at once (they’re mutable, remember?), so they can disappear to tend to their other lovers. However, he most likely just needs space and alone time to recharge his batteries.

Pisces can walk in and out of your life at any time, which can be annoying for their partners. People looking for responsible and dependent partners may have a hard time with Pisces people. Usually, Pisceans can win back the attention of their lovers due to the fact that they are romantic and sensitive, and have the ability to seduce people with ease. Honestly, Pisceans don’t mean to hurt others; in fact, hurting others is the last thing they would want to do.

So what’s a girl to do? How do you deal with a guy like that? The first thing she should do is appeal to her emotions in a very gentle way. If she feels anger or negativity, she might swim away. Appreciate her for what she is and don’t take advantage of her kind nature. Appeal to the spiritual side of her; people who are too materialistic reject it. Patience, tolerance and acceptance are the key to having a relationship with a Pisces. Be a strong and reliable partner for him. Feel free to take the initiative and make him feel cared for and taken care of. Pisceans are also known for their wandering eyes, so learn to manage your jealousy. They also suffer from low self-esteem, so they stroke their ego.

Once a Pisces is in love with you, you will become their whole world. While he will still disappear from time to time, he will always swim back to you.