Pathological Partners: 9 Signs Your Relationship Could Be Affected By A Personality Disorder

Most people enter a relationship hoping that the union will be mutually satisfying and respectful. When both members of the couple are well balanced and emotionally healthy, this can be the result when there is commitment, effort and good communication in the relationship. However, there are some people who are mentally programmed in a way that makes these types of happy unions very difficult or impossible.

Personality disorders, such as sociopathy and narcissism, often cause the affected partner to behave in ways that are harmful and destructive to the relationship and to the other partner. This can leave the undisturbed partner bewildered, confused, and hurt. Here are 9 signs that your relationship could be affected by a personality disorder:

1. Lack of empathy. Your partner may not be able to put himself in the shoes of others.

2. Lack of response of guilt or remorse. A true conscience is lacking, although your partner might regret being caught doing something that hurts others. Your partner may feel that those they hurt deserve it for being “weak.”

3. Poor impulse control. This can lead to compulsive behaviors such as drug and alcohol abuse and sexual promiscuity.

4. A tendency toward boredom and risky behavior, regardless of the danger to self and others.

5. A tendency toward criminal behavior, including violent acts.

6. Consistent displays of irresponsibility. Our partner may not have a steady job or keep commitments like paying bills on time.

7. A great sense of self-worth. Your partner may feel superior to others and want excessive amounts of praise. Your partner may show a lot of charm, but little substance.

8. Handling and lying down. Your partner may willingly exploit others to get what she wants.

9. Lack of adherence to social norms. Feeling that the rules do not apply to him or her, he or she may show complete disregard for laws, ethics, or proper behavior.